A letter to a Jim(Final)
A letter to a Jim
Nina Yang
W&CIII
09/29/2014
Hi, Dear Jim:
This is Nina and I’m writing to you because I disagree with your decision on following your dream. I’m an 18-year-old girl who is studying abroad in the United States. I’m pursuing my dream right now since my dream is to become a psychologist. My whole family is supporting me to follow my dream and I feel glad they put a huge effort on me in order for me to achieve my dream.
As a human being in this world, I think everyone should take responsibility for their whole life and also the people have close relationships with him or her. However, you said: “ I promised Annie and her parents I would buy her a house, a car, and finish our wedding before 2015. She said she wants a garden wedding with a lot of cute cupcakes. She wanna invite all her friends and relatives, she dreams to wear the wedding dress of Vera Wang. Plus, she plans to go to Maldives for honeymoon.” But you refused to accomplish your promises and to follow your dream instead. The decision you made is very selfish and harmful not only to your fiancée but also to the whole family. The action you did is not called follow your dream, in fact, it’s called being a slacker. You were afraid to take responsibility to your promises. The decision you made is really an annoyance to the people around you especially your fiancée. Your fiancée was really upset about what you did to her: “your dreams? What about mine? You are so selfish. If you insist doing that, our relationship will definitely be over. Cuz I don't think I would be happy with someone who didn't listen to me.”
When someone is following their dream to do something, they must get some of the support from either your friends or family members. As for you, I don’t think anyone would support your decision except for Sam because the only thing he cares is how much money he can get from you. As a result, I don’t think you should still following your dream. Instead of that, why don’t you fulfill your promise to your fiancée first and then think about following your dream and achieve your dream together with your wife. Isn’t that more attractive and sweeter enough than the situation right now?
At the last of this letter, I really suggest you to go back to Annie and make an apology to her; tell her that you are sorry and ask her to forgive you. The most important thing in the world is trust from the people you love. If you ask me how can you get their trust, I would tell you that to take every responsibility you have to take in your life instead of being a coward.
A letter to a Jim
Nina Yang
W&CIII
09/29/2014
Hi, Dear Jim:
This is Nina and I’m writing to you because I disagree with your decision on following your dream. I’m an 18-year-old girl who is studying abroad in the United States. I’m pursuing my dream right now since my dream is to become a psychologist. My whole family is supporting me to follow my dream and I feel glad they put a huge effort on me in order for me to achieve my dream.
As a human being in this world, I think everyone should take responsibility for their whole life and also the people have close relationships with him or her. However, you said: “ I promised Annie and her parents I would buy her a house, a car, and finish our wedding before 2015. She said she wants a garden wedding with a lot of cute cupcakes. She wanna invite all her friends and relatives, she dreams to wear the wedding dress of Vera Wang. Plus, she plans to go to Maldives for honeymoon.” But you refused to accomplish your promises and to follow your dream instead. The decision you made is very selfish and harmful not only to your fiancée but also to the whole family. The action you did is not called follow your dream, in fact, it’s called being a slacker. You were afraid to take responsibility to your promises. The decision you made is really an annoyance to the people around you especially your fiancée. Your fiancée was really upset about what you did to her: “your dreams? What about mine? You are so selfish. If you insist doing that, our relationship will definitely be over. Cuz I don't think I would be happy with someone who didn't listen to me.”
When someone is following their dream to do something, they must get some of the support from either your friends or family members. As for you, I don’t think anyone would support your decision except for Sam because the only thing he cares is how much money he can get from you. As a result, I don’t think you should still following your dream. Instead of that, why don’t you fulfill your promise to your fiancée first and then think about following your dream and achieve your dream together with your wife. Isn’t that more attractive and sweeter enough than the situation right now?
At the last of this letter, I really suggest you to go back to Annie and make an apology to her; tell her that you are sorry and ask her to forgive you. The most important thing in the world is trust from the people you love. If you ask me how can you get their trust, I would tell you that to take every responsibility you have to take in your life instead of being a coward.
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